Relationships usually start out going great. Each person puts their best foot forward. Then something happens and it all seems to suddenly go cold. What happened?
He's pulled back and you really don't know why. You don't know if he's going to call you or is it over. One day he's on, the next he's off. What does all of this really mean? Maybe it's not you.
He stops communicating; the calls and texts have suddenly stopped. The first thing women think it that he's upset with her but not saying why. Her imagination goes off the charts about what she must have done to cause this.
Women shouldn't blame themselves if he stops calling, unless there is an obvious reason. But when there is no apparent reason, they fill in the blanks with all of the things that must have been wrong that he wasn't telling her.
His pattern has changed and so she is at a loss. She calls, texts and gets no response. The problem is, she keeps doing it thinking maybe something is wrong with him. Maybe he's been in a car accident. It is very hard for her to accept the fact that he may be gone - forever.
This is the point where women need to pull back and assess the reality of the situation before making any more moves at all. Usually, they have been the one initiating the calls/texts and when they suddenly stop, fear sets in that he's gone. They need to take a huge break from this in a big way.
This is when women need to just let him be and stop worrying about whether he's still interested. What women don't realize is they they wield the power in not contacting him. This is key to making him wonder what she is doing. Women become very absorbed in men during the infatuation stage and need to be aware of when to let a break be in their favor.
- Stop trying to contact him at all
- Your controlled absence will cause him to wonder
- When he does make contact, make him wait before getting back to him
- Don't answer your phone on the weekends
- Go into stealth mode
Take charge and go back to your old life for a while. If was fine before you met him. This will ultimately give you the freedom to enjoy a night out with old pals at your leisure.
If he suddenly ceases to have regular contact with you, this is not the time to start contacting him. Fill your life up with friends and people from your work. Don't let him think you are wasting away thinking about him by your phone. When enough time goes by, he'll call which is when you shouldn't call back right away.
Men need a challenge when it comes to pursuing women. If he doesn't take a royal hint at the things mentioned above, it is time to ditch him and open yourself up to someone who wants what you have to offer. If taking you for granted by coming and going whenever he decides to, maybe it is time to re-think this relationship because the bottom line is that you are not getting what you need and want from it.
He's pulled back and you really don't know why. You don't know if he's going to call you or is it over. One day he's on, the next he's off. What does all of this really mean? Maybe it's not you.
He stops communicating; the calls and texts have suddenly stopped. The first thing women think it that he's upset with her but not saying why. Her imagination goes off the charts about what she must have done to cause this.
Women shouldn't blame themselves if he stops calling, unless there is an obvious reason. But when there is no apparent reason, they fill in the blanks with all of the things that must have been wrong that he wasn't telling her.
His pattern has changed and so she is at a loss. She calls, texts and gets no response. The problem is, she keeps doing it thinking maybe something is wrong with him. Maybe he's been in a car accident. It is very hard for her to accept the fact that he may be gone - forever.
This is the point where women need to pull back and assess the reality of the situation before making any more moves at all. Usually, they have been the one initiating the calls/texts and when they suddenly stop, fear sets in that he's gone. They need to take a huge break from this in a big way.
This is when women need to just let him be and stop worrying about whether he's still interested. What women don't realize is they they wield the power in not contacting him. This is key to making him wonder what she is doing. Women become very absorbed in men during the infatuation stage and need to be aware of when to let a break be in their favor.
- Stop trying to contact him at all
- Your controlled absence will cause him to wonder
- When he does make contact, make him wait before getting back to him
- Don't answer your phone on the weekends
- Go into stealth mode
Take charge and go back to your old life for a while. If was fine before you met him. This will ultimately give you the freedom to enjoy a night out with old pals at your leisure.
If he suddenly ceases to have regular contact with you, this is not the time to start contacting him. Fill your life up with friends and people from your work. Don't let him think you are wasting away thinking about him by your phone. When enough time goes by, he'll call which is when you shouldn't call back right away.
Men need a challenge when it comes to pursuing women. If he doesn't take a royal hint at the things mentioned above, it is time to ditch him and open yourself up to someone who wants what you have to offer. If taking you for granted by coming and going whenever he decides to, maybe it is time to re-think this relationship because the bottom line is that you are not getting what you need and want from it.
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