Oh To Love, How Rare That Truly Is

By Evan Sanders


Oh to truly love, how rare that truly is. The things we love in this world last only so long. Yes, it may only be 5 minutes, 5 years, or an entire lifetime, but in the end we eventually part. How lucky we are to have something so wonderful at one point that makes the ending of the journey so hard. But for people that love unconditionally...for people who love with their entire heart and understand that we absolutely are all sentenced to an end, we stay present with the people we love. We make that moment last as long as we are able to because who truly knows when those moments will be no more. Our love is the thing that miracles are made from. Our love is the thing that will truly and accurately change the planet . We see friends and family all the time fall in love with something they do, and the world changes around them. We see people who fall head over heels in love with a person, and their energy, the two of them together as a unit creates something that other people can honestly see and feel.

Love transcends.

Love is a sort of energy that really cannot be explained.

Words are no match for it. Even the times when the best of words are utilized in the most perfect way, only a scratch is created on truly describing what love is. This is the reason why our hearts literally break when love crashes and burns. Recovery appears as distant cousin. We enter into a true state of loss honestly because the person we were with were actually was our other set of eyes, hands and legs.

Our friends, our work, our relationships, all can be deeply deeply loved. Not childish "love" but I'm talking about the kind of really deep and exposed love, where you have no fear in your mind about telling that person the worst about yourself, the methods of madness you have kept secret, as you know that love goes beyond all. You give somebody the tools to absolutely destroy you down to your core, and you trust them with everything inside of you not to.

Love unfortunately could be a fleeting thing.

And that's how it is designed to be. As people, we try to keep hold of the nice stuff truly as long as we possibly can, but often the good just runs out and the balance of life takes a dip from what we had. We are supposed to be brought down, so we can in fact rise again. I've always thought that the one person I truly fell completely in love with, my soulmate, wouldn't just be the one who would be on the up and up with me, but the one who would support me and even help me walk through those dips in life.

The love that I have felt in the past has been glorious, life changing, phenomenal, and yet at all the same time passing. Things occur, things change, and as the years have gone by, I have found more and more ways to appreciate what I had instead of what I lost. I believe that has been a major turning point for me. My soul opens like a blooming flower each time I give myself the chance to experience life. The good and the bad. The amazing strength of a great redwood is built into my core and flowers of deep experience, zeal, and wisdom bloom through my soul.

We are meant to experience the stuff we do on the trails we choose.

Hang onto what you can while you have it and terribly love those around you. Cold and hard hearts are for the weak soul. That is fear chatting. That is only fear trying to offer protection to the one thing you know that could actually make you vulnerable. Overt and plain-speaking strength is not strength in any way. It's weakness trying to convince an audience it is something else.

Vulnerability and a light heart is true strength. The journey permits you to confront even your worst nightmares with eagerness and vigor.

Love intensely.

Love passionately.

Love vulnerably.

Love with no fear.




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