Understanding Love Addiction Therapy Versus Sex Addiction

By Catherine Smith


Most people have experienced some type of love in life. Whether family, friendship or romantic love, most everyone has experienced one kind or another. While this is the case, there are often many whom mistake chemical and sexual attraction for the romantic type on a regular basis. In these cases, the individual may be in need of Love Addiction Therapy.

The differences between these addictions while closely related are separate and apart from another with regards to the definitions, symptoms and therapies. For, when it comes to sex, individuals can have urges which are beyond control of the individual. As such, this often creates issues with a number of other people over time. For, sex addicts are often known to take advantage of others whether through false impressions such as lying about being married or sexual assault. Whereas, when it comes to love, individuals often mistake sexual attraction to others for love while expecting a long-term commitment only to be later disappointed.

While this is the case, the definition of this type of addiction includes having a compulsive pattern with regards to relationships, sexuality and romance. In many cases, these compulsive behaviors can have negative effects for addicts and partners. In fact, these addictions often end in failed marriages, legal issues, custody battles and sexually transmitted diseases.

Suggested symptoms include mistaking sexual attraction for romantic interest. In addition, individuals who always feel alone, desperate and inadequate when not in a relationship may be exhibiting signs. Individuals having a constant presence on dating websites and chat-lines can also be indicative of this type addiction. Whereas, anyone who always falls in love at first sight, on a first date, online or over the phone can also be exhibiting signs.

If an individual feels one is in need of therapy, it is important to locate a facility or therapist which works in the area as soon as possible. For, the sooner an individual can get help, often the sooner one can move forward in building honest, trustworthy relationships with the right people. Otherwise, it can often be difficult to experience legitimate intimacy or set and maintain boundaries related to sex and other issues in the relationship.

Sex addicts also need to learn about the criminal aspect of spreading disease when having knowledge of same. For, while doing so may only be misdemeanors in some areas, many can be felonies in others. As there are a number of sex offenders in both categories, it is often advised that before getting involved in a romantic or dating relationship, the individual run a background check to assure there has been no criminal activity related to sexual assault on the sex industry.

When it comes to heartbreak, both have caused much pain in this area. For, whether one is the addict or partner, there is often disappointment when a relationship ends. Whether that be a long-term marriage or a casual dating relationship, there is often one person whom experiences more pain than the other.

Ultimately, it is up to each individual to determine whether or not one is interested in a long-term relationship. Individuals going through a dating process need to clarify any intentions one has towards a commitment or long-term relationship as early on in the process as possible. For, while dating can be fun, falling in love only to discover it is a one sided love can often be more destructive than most people realize.




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