This is one method used by professional psychotherapists when they treat quick climax issues. The technique is simple and easy to use without a sex therapist. Also, this method to cure early climax costs not a penny and genuinely works.
What do you do? You cultivate your discernment so you feel when you are on the edge of needing to reach orgasm. Now, this is probably going to look naive. After all, surely almost all men experience some clear muscle contractions prior to ejaculation?
Well, yes. These feelings can be a unique part of our sensuous responses. But the fact is men who have premature orgasm challenges or who want to last longer in bed say that these feelings occur with no warning before ejaculation. This means the majority of males who don't have much staying power only experience these sensations at a point where they can't stop the climax.
The accurately named moment of ejaculatory inevitability ought to offer adequate warning that climax is almost almost inevitable and can't be halted. By contrast, when you know you're about to attain orgasm well before it happens, you could stop the rhythm of sexual intercourse and allow your excitement abate.
This is not at all difficult to do - if you are sufficiently sensitive to recognize the signs of your orgasm soon enough. And developing your level of arousal means it is easy to stop climax. Greater discernment means you have the power to enjoy making love with complete self-control so that you do not have to pause during sexual intercourse, and you can simply continue pleasing your lover.
The optimum lovemaking skill is to continue stimulating your lover until you believe the moment is right to ejaculate - the thing is that you have complete control about how you release.
It's the fact you have overt control that is satisfying. And therefore the very first requirement is to find out when you must pause .... and to do so quickly enough so that you maintain complete control. For many men, this can be difficult. Throughout sex, the instinctive temptation is to carry on enjoying yourself despite climaxing before your partner has climaxed.
And developing these skills by pausing during lovemaking and allowing your excitement to diminish shows your lover how keen you are to slow down your climax!
If you truly wish to make love last at least long enough to bring a woman to orgasm - something the majority of women truly desire - especially when they are highly excited - then you need to decide once and for all to do it. Intention is the way to achieve success.
So, this is exactly how it works. Revel in intercourse, and when you feel you are nearing the point of ejaculatory inevitability, yet able to choose to stop, pause the rhythm of lovemaking. Impressive self-control might be needed now - particularly if your partner wants things to continue, as she may if she is strongly aroused.
However, as you know, as you are learning how to last longer in bed you cannot be indecisive; if you continue making love, you will ejaculate, and then there will be no change in your stamina. So wait till your arousal has reduced then continue making love.
For guys, the important thing is becoming more aware of your sensuous feelings and what they mean as you near orgasm. Basically, you are exploring your level of sexual arousal so you instinctively know when there is no danger of having an orgasm too soon.
Sexual arousal in guys and women has 4 different phases: first, arousal; secondly, the plateau phase; third, the phase of ejaculation; and finally the resolution stage. In the very first stage the most apparent difference from normal is tumescence of the sexual parts. During the plateau phase of sexual arousal, you will feel very aroused, bodily indicators of excitement will be very obvious, and excitement progressively advances to its peak. At some point your arousal will trigger your ejaculation. Initially you sense emission - when fluid enters the urethra from the seminal vesicles in readiness for the muscles to expel semen from the body, which inevitably follows. The feelings that accompany orgasm begin in the throbbing of the perineum and the penis.
After climax, the resolution causes lessening of tension and relaxation. Your heart rate returns to normal. You might lose any sexual feelings for a time, ranging from a few minutes to a few days according to your age.
To control early ejaculation, you must be aware of your position in the sexual response cycle. Once you are accustomed to this, it is simple to make small adjustments to your lovemaking technique to stop excitement increasing till you reach your climax.
What do you do? You cultivate your discernment so you feel when you are on the edge of needing to reach orgasm. Now, this is probably going to look naive. After all, surely almost all men experience some clear muscle contractions prior to ejaculation?
Well, yes. These feelings can be a unique part of our sensuous responses. But the fact is men who have premature orgasm challenges or who want to last longer in bed say that these feelings occur with no warning before ejaculation. This means the majority of males who don't have much staying power only experience these sensations at a point where they can't stop the climax.
The accurately named moment of ejaculatory inevitability ought to offer adequate warning that climax is almost almost inevitable and can't be halted. By contrast, when you know you're about to attain orgasm well before it happens, you could stop the rhythm of sexual intercourse and allow your excitement abate.
This is not at all difficult to do - if you are sufficiently sensitive to recognize the signs of your orgasm soon enough. And developing your level of arousal means it is easy to stop climax. Greater discernment means you have the power to enjoy making love with complete self-control so that you do not have to pause during sexual intercourse, and you can simply continue pleasing your lover.
The optimum lovemaking skill is to continue stimulating your lover until you believe the moment is right to ejaculate - the thing is that you have complete control about how you release.
It's the fact you have overt control that is satisfying. And therefore the very first requirement is to find out when you must pause .... and to do so quickly enough so that you maintain complete control. For many men, this can be difficult. Throughout sex, the instinctive temptation is to carry on enjoying yourself despite climaxing before your partner has climaxed.
And developing these skills by pausing during lovemaking and allowing your excitement to diminish shows your lover how keen you are to slow down your climax!
If you truly wish to make love last at least long enough to bring a woman to orgasm - something the majority of women truly desire - especially when they are highly excited - then you need to decide once and for all to do it. Intention is the way to achieve success.
So, this is exactly how it works. Revel in intercourse, and when you feel you are nearing the point of ejaculatory inevitability, yet able to choose to stop, pause the rhythm of lovemaking. Impressive self-control might be needed now - particularly if your partner wants things to continue, as she may if she is strongly aroused.
However, as you know, as you are learning how to last longer in bed you cannot be indecisive; if you continue making love, you will ejaculate, and then there will be no change in your stamina. So wait till your arousal has reduced then continue making love.
For guys, the important thing is becoming more aware of your sensuous feelings and what they mean as you near orgasm. Basically, you are exploring your level of sexual arousal so you instinctively know when there is no danger of having an orgasm too soon.
Sexual arousal in guys and women has 4 different phases: first, arousal; secondly, the plateau phase; third, the phase of ejaculation; and finally the resolution stage. In the very first stage the most apparent difference from normal is tumescence of the sexual parts. During the plateau phase of sexual arousal, you will feel very aroused, bodily indicators of excitement will be very obvious, and excitement progressively advances to its peak. At some point your arousal will trigger your ejaculation. Initially you sense emission - when fluid enters the urethra from the seminal vesicles in readiness for the muscles to expel semen from the body, which inevitably follows. The feelings that accompany orgasm begin in the throbbing of the perineum and the penis.
After climax, the resolution causes lessening of tension and relaxation. Your heart rate returns to normal. You might lose any sexual feelings for a time, ranging from a few minutes to a few days according to your age.
To control early ejaculation, you must be aware of your position in the sexual response cycle. Once you are accustomed to this, it is simple to make small adjustments to your lovemaking technique to stop excitement increasing till you reach your climax.
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