"Don't be afraid to let go. Every new adventure begins with the ending of another." - The Better Man Project
Why are we so scared to let go?
Honestly, it mostly revolves around the idea that we don't think we will find anything better.
We believe somewhere deep down that what we had is "it" for us and that we won't be able to find something that replaces what once was.
However, when you really think about it, our lives are a perfect representation of one thing ending and another thing coming into the picture. Every single time you experience a painful ending it creates something completely new.
If it's someone you had to walk away from, at one point in your life there was someone before them who you had to heal from.
Then that new person came in and healed the wounds you were carrying.They soothed the pain that was turning you inside out.
And if that relationship falls apart, it will happen again.
And another after that...
Until one day, someone will come into your life who refuses to walk away from you.They will want you and do anything to keep you. They will prove to you just how much they love you and you will love them right back.
That will be one of the best days of your life.
So until then, be gentle with yourself and know that the universe has a wonderful way of giving you exactly what you need to grow.
Notice how I didn't say "want."
While these lessons and challenges can be incredibly difficult, they help you grow into a person who can take on life's greatest challenges one step at a time.
By staying completely open to experiencing all of the different colors of life, you will live in the present moment and continue growing.
That's a happy life. That's one of fulfillment.
Trust that.
Why are we so scared to let go?
Honestly, it mostly revolves around the idea that we don't think we will find anything better.
We believe somewhere deep down that what we had is "it" for us and that we won't be able to find something that replaces what once was.
However, when you really think about it, our lives are a perfect representation of one thing ending and another thing coming into the picture. Every single time you experience a painful ending it creates something completely new.
If it's someone you had to walk away from, at one point in your life there was someone before them who you had to heal from.
Then that new person came in and healed the wounds you were carrying.They soothed the pain that was turning you inside out.
And if that relationship falls apart, it will happen again.
And another after that...
Until one day, someone will come into your life who refuses to walk away from you.They will want you and do anything to keep you. They will prove to you just how much they love you and you will love them right back.
That will be one of the best days of your life.
So until then, be gentle with yourself and know that the universe has a wonderful way of giving you exactly what you need to grow.
Notice how I didn't say "want."
While these lessons and challenges can be incredibly difficult, they help you grow into a person who can take on life's greatest challenges one step at a time.
By staying completely open to experiencing all of the different colors of life, you will live in the present moment and continue growing.
That's a happy life. That's one of fulfillment.
Trust that.
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