Non Religious Wedding Officiants And Custom Ceremonies

By Anna Bennett


When it comes to marriage, most couples prefer to have a traditional ceremony based on the faith of the couple. While this is the case, not all ceremonies are religious or spiritual as not all people follow a specific faith. Whereas, some couples may be of different faiths. As a result, non religious wedding officiants are now being asked to perform nuptials at civil unions, commitment ceremonies, hand-fastings and weddings.

A common theme among all weddings, religious or otherwise is that of uniting individuals whom want to move into a more committed relationship. Whether that be through a civil union, commitment ceremony, hand-fasting, or State sanctioned wedding, all are doing so as a celebration of love. As such, it is often one of the most important days in the lives of the bride and groom.

Ceremonies whether traditional or otherwise are a celebration of love, honor, respect and trust between those tying the knot, or ribbon in the case of a hand-fasting. In some cases, there may be family traditions and rituals which the individuals will perform during the service, especially in traditional ones. Whereas, others may desire to create new and unique rituals specific to interests shared by the couple.

In many cases, non traditional ceremonies can be just as, if not more beautiful than traditional ones. Whether choosing to be wed at a church, chapel, temple, synagogue or other location, the most important aspect is the bride and groom are happy with the event. In addition, it is important that the individuals choose whether to use traditional vows, or write custom ones. In most cases, couples will now choose to use a combination of self-authored vows while using a traditional background when it comes to readings by the officiant.

One of the most important aspects of either a traditional or non traditional ceremony is choosing the appropriate officiant. For, there are religious and secular individuals whom have been ordained which can officiate at memorials, weddings and provide spiritual counseling. In most cases, those working in the secular world have become ordained through organizations such as the Universal Life Church or similar organizations which offer instant ordination by filling out a form on an associated website.

In some cases, couples prefer to ask someone close in heart to provide this service. In fact, a number of individuals will become ordained just to officiate at a friend or family member's ceremony. Whereas, others may choose to locate an officiant whom provides inter-faith and secular services on an ongoing basis.

When planning to host a destination or themed wedding, it is important to assure all details are in place well ahead of the ceremony. For, it can often take extra time to locate an officiant, custom order specialized attire or find an appropriate venue. As such, the earlier in the process these items are finalized, the easier it will be to plan and organize other aspects of the event.

It is also important to book the location as early in the process as possible. For, there can often be a two to three year wait for some of the most popular sites, especially those related to a specific theme. Regardless of theme or venue, the most important thing is that the couple are in agreement and happy with the choice of officiant and venue.




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