Learning The Art Of Flirting

By Brett Vaughan


Flirting is known to be a helpful skill that some people have while some have to acquire it through practice in order to master it. The basic rule of learning the art of flirting is overcoming the fear of strangers whereby one assumes that every stranger is dangerous. Instead, people should take advantage of the anonymity of flirting with a stranger or any random person.

For those that have a hard time approaching other people, and lack the confidence to do so need practice which is better done by approaching random stranger and learning how to initiate a conversation. This way, one has nothing to lose if they make a fool out of themselves since they probably never meet these people again which build their confidence before they meet the right person.

As they say, practice makes perfect and therefore, one gets better at this art the more they practice it as they get to learn their best skills and how to apply them and how to take rejections without damaging their ego. After becoming more comfortable with flirting with strangers it may be the right time to move to semi-strangers just to gather enough confidence.

In this game there are those that may seem intimidating which bring the fear of approaching them; in this case, one should assume that their target is waiting for them to go ahead which is probably the case most of the times. For those that have gone through the exchanging numbers part and maybe even saliva, it usually is easier as they have more confidence to withstand rejection.

Normally, flirting begins with the eyes, then to the mouth and some coyness or shyness especially for women. This tends to be different for men and women as men are only expected to portray boldness and not shyness which is seen as attractive when done by women. With time, women have grown confident enough to be the once doing the approaching and not waiting for the men to do it.

There usually is no right place for this as it can be done anywhere, all one needs to know is be able to take hints and read signals. For instance, a blink, a smile, or shyness may be a signal hinting to you that someone want you to approach them. However, being over flirtatious may be off-putting as one may seem easy and creepy especially if it is a lady does it.

Flirting is a process that hints one step to the other; it starts with hints from the eyes, goes to a smile and body language which show that it is the right time to approach. The ability to ignite a conversation is indispensable as one need to keep the conversation flowing just to avoid the awkwardness especially when it is a stranger. With time, one should initiate some coziness just to break the touch barrier but ensure it is not offensive.

For a successful flirting moment, there are certain rules that come in handy making it interesting and fun. For people who want to secure a second date it is important to be careful and ensure that one leaves when the date is going very well. This way, one leaves a suspense that lets the other person want to meet again and finish what was started.




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