Love The Man In Him

By Evan Sanders


He's not going to be perfect. In reality he may be completely different than you thought he would ever be. He's going to screw up, fail repeatedly, and lose himself once in a while. He'll be in doubt, insecure occasionally and disappoint you. His fluidity at times when the sea roars will baffle you. His silence when life rips the rug out from him will make you wonder where he went. Did he leave? Did he drift away into some faraway land? He will, from time to time, escape into his anger, disappointment, and anxiety. He will suffer and wrench deep within his soul. He'll need to leave for a while, going off on his very own journey to answer questions only solitude will provide him with. He is going to have times where he is weak in front of you, cry even, and lose the strength he had because he has been powerful in the world too long. He'll go back and forth in his choices on occasion and you may question if he can ever make them. He will do all of these things and many more.

But when you have a man, a real man, his compass will always come back true.

If you love the man, he'll be your mountain, the unmovable rock in your life when you need him. He is going to be your best and greatest fan, no matter the circumstance or situation, he'll be there for you in any way he can. If you love the man in him, he will stand in face of your chaos, waves crashing about him, and no matter how much the blackness of your emotions seem to test him, he can always stand strong. If you care for the man, he is going to push you to dream as big as you can and help you see the bigger picture. He can bring something out in you that you never thought you might have in your life. If you really adore the truly imperfect man, he will help you bloom and moment by moment, bring you out of your darkest moods into open love. If you love the man he's going to be your equal, understanding that together you can be more than you would ever be apart. If you love the man he will love you as much as he loves life itself, deep inside knowing you are his joy and he is absolutely your light.

He will want to be your hero, your companion, the king to the queen you are. If you really love the man you'll waken grand passions from him, the deepest feelings he will be able to mobilize and he will share them with you because somewhere deep down in his heart he does trust you.

When you have a man in your life, he will be certain within all of this doubt. He'll disappear to find his answers and come back to you repeatedly. He will writhe with his calls and then make them, moving forward with conviction and bring you along the ride for the greatest adventure of your life. He'll feel his insecurity and doubt, and bring out a confidence which will settle your heart. If you love the this imperfect man, he'll look at you and not try to say anything, because he can feel into you and already knows what your heart needs. If you love the man, he is going to do anything for you. He will cross oceans for you. He will move mountains for you. It may not look like you thought it would, but if you adore the man in him, he will bring a love out in you that may light your soul on fire, and together, you can change the future.




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