The Occurrence Of Male Wives

By Gwen Lowe


Reversal of gender roles in todays world is one of the most common phenomena in the society. Although it raises eyebrows, the occurrence of male wives and female husbands is more prevalent in the society than anyone would care to accept. This is a case where the husband takes the roles of the wife in a marriage while the wife takes all the roles of the husband including being the sole bread winner.

In the industrial sense, more and more women are being given the control of positions that in the past were deemed to be for males. This has made them mature enough to take care of their personal relationships in as a better way than they did, and they are taking control. The professional field is fast transcripting this change to their personal lives by giving them more confidence and power.

These he-partners then come about as a result of trying to cope with such strong willed women whom seemingly can do what a man is capable of or even better . This is especially if they are able to earn enough money for them and the children. In this case, the husband is left with no choice but to assume her roles which are less demanding, for the sake of peace in that house.

For some men, they will do this as a way of showing love to their mates. Rather than an expression of weakness, they mean to show how much they care. It is also a way of taking a break from the fatiguing role and just chill in the house as the woman makes the ends meet.

Men who are married to women with a do not care attitude and dominant personality will also be in such a situation. Since these characters are aggressive and would do all it takes to have the final say, the man ends up stepping down for them. The male partner will give the female control over all that pertains to their relationship and family.

It is important to understand that love drives this kind of change in families. You find that the menfolk are so willing to abandon their control so as to support their wives whom they love. They will cook, clean and even look after the kids as their wives go to attend to their careers.

These men will go as far as dressing as women in the home setting and even wearing makeup. It is not abnormal, and these men should not be deemed as gay because they are not necessarily so. They just love playing the role of the wife in a marriage, and this should be understandable. This is why they have their own support network in order to share experiences.

These wives may be victimized by their more masculine counterparts who feel that they are letting them down, but it is not so. In fact, their manliness is shown off by how well they treat the women in their lives. It is not about the ego but about the deeds that one does to show they really care for their families.




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