Is there any way that we can know for certain if if our marriage is going to thrive or fall apart? Maybe not, but this article is going to explain how you will know for sure if your marriage will fail. If you had to pick one thing that would decide whether or not your marriage would survive or not, what do you think it would be?
Most people will actually say "conflict". If you are always fighting then that can't be good for your marriage, right? Wrong
The truth of the matter is that it is actually the complete opposite. Studies actually have proven that avoiding fights with your spouse is sure fir predictor that your marriage will not survive. It's kind of strange how we try to avoid fighting with our spouse thinking that we are benefiting our marriage. When in fact we are doing the complete opposite.
I really hope that you did not take that the wrong way. I am not saying that you should stop reading this and go hunt down your spouse and start a brawl. Let's face it fighting doesn't make for happy marriage either. But I am saying that if you have a healthy marriage then you probably fight. Having disputes is actually a good sign that you are still in love with one another. To be happily married you need to learn how to fight well.
A successful marriage is about learning how to master discussing your differences in a healthy manner. now this is not something that most come by naturally. It is something that we must learn how to do over time. But once you do learn how to fight properly then your disagreements can actually help you build a stronger bond.
EVERY successful couple has areas of disagreement. No two people are perfectly compatible. "Irreconcilable differences" are like a bad knee or a chronic back-they're part of every good marriage.
Most people think that the only way to succeed in marriage is to find the right person. This is not true, it's about learning how to fight with the person you already have in your life. The truth is, you will have differences with anyone that you get into a relationship with. The deciding factor is whether or not you can learn to discuss your disagreements.
Most people will actually say "conflict". If you are always fighting then that can't be good for your marriage, right? Wrong
The truth of the matter is that it is actually the complete opposite. Studies actually have proven that avoiding fights with your spouse is sure fir predictor that your marriage will not survive. It's kind of strange how we try to avoid fighting with our spouse thinking that we are benefiting our marriage. When in fact we are doing the complete opposite.
I really hope that you did not take that the wrong way. I am not saying that you should stop reading this and go hunt down your spouse and start a brawl. Let's face it fighting doesn't make for happy marriage either. But I am saying that if you have a healthy marriage then you probably fight. Having disputes is actually a good sign that you are still in love with one another. To be happily married you need to learn how to fight well.
A successful marriage is about learning how to master discussing your differences in a healthy manner. now this is not something that most come by naturally. It is something that we must learn how to do over time. But once you do learn how to fight properly then your disagreements can actually help you build a stronger bond.
EVERY successful couple has areas of disagreement. No two people are perfectly compatible. "Irreconcilable differences" are like a bad knee or a chronic back-they're part of every good marriage.
Most people think that the only way to succeed in marriage is to find the right person. This is not true, it's about learning how to fight with the person you already have in your life. The truth is, you will have differences with anyone that you get into a relationship with. The deciding factor is whether or not you can learn to discuss your disagreements.
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