Communication Skills: Avoiding The Awkward Silence

By J. Ryu


You manage to finally approach a pretty woman. Utilizing your spectacular interaction skills, you strike up a conversation without getting slapped or chased away. The conversation with this girl is going terrific. She's smiling, laughing, obviously becoming more interested and more attracted as the conversation rolls along.

Then...it happens. Call it a brain fart, a blank mind, a loss for words. The only thing that matters is, it brings the conversation to a complete halt and you can feel her attraction levels for you dropping faster than your ego. She looks at you expectantly, then disappointedly, then disinterestedly, then dismissively. Game over.

So what can you do to pull the conversational nose-dive back into the high flying interaction it was? You dig into your tool kit. Your interaction abilities toolbox. You are about to learn one of the downright best conversation-saving resource available. This is a guaranteed means to spare any interaction with a girl, PLUS it's so perfectly constructed, that it quickly allows sexual innuendo to get her mind "in the right spot" while still being in the context of pure, non-desperate and fun banter.

It's a little game I like to call "SMK" and it will be your new best friend. When you deploy the SMK game, any drooping conversation will instantly be turned around. You will leap beyond the average dork that approaches her with the same old boring pickup lines and dull conversations.

When you begin to run out of things to say, when you can feel that her attraction is about to start dipping down ... You turn to her, and you say: "Hey, let's play a game real quick." Watch as her eyes sparkle with interest. This is definitely a departure from the regular night-time drivel she's used to dealing with. She will almost definitely welcome you to continue.

Continue to the game. Start to look around the area, examining the other guys you see and start to point them out individually, and ask her "ok, so would you sleep with, marry, or kill him?" She'll laugh at first. Then she'll look over at your target and check him out. Choose different kinds of men representing the spectrum of character types and stereotypes. A jock. A gangster. A nerd. A good-looking guy. An artist. A business man.

This will have several effects:

1) You will get an insight into what she values in a man, and how she operates. She will give very direct clues to how she wants to be seduced. If she says "fuck" to the musician, "marry" to the nerdy guy, and "kill" to the guy in a suit...then you can guess that she's got a wild side, she doesn't like guys with a lot of structure, and she's a secret nerd. Think about that... she'll basically be giving you a HUGE hint into how to seduce her.

2) You can continue bantering and teasing her. This is so crucial to the first stage of the interaction with her. Keep conversation light, non-needy, (teasing her playfully) and fun! Make funny and crazy projections about who you suspect she'd sleep with, marry and kill. It will be remarkably simple as she's varying in between giggling at her own qwerky tastes, flinching at the dopey guys, and changing to her "ooh la la" voice with the guys that turn her on.

3) Which brings me to the next point ... SHE WILL GET TURNED ON. Remember, you are asking her to bring the thought "who do I wish to sleep with?" into her mind, and all in the context of an experience that was generated by and shared with you ... and just you.

4) Lastly ... she will see that you are 100 % confident in your sexuality and your potential to draw in girls. You can confidently go over the theoretical idea of her sleeping with other guys, which does not threaten you. 99.99% of guys would be intimidated to even imply that she even check out another guy when he's talking with her! Your self-confidence here will be extremely hot to girls.

After playing this game for even a few minutes, she will be extremely turned on by your creativity, your playfulness, and your confidence... This sets you up PERFECTLY to transition into the next stage of interaction, which builds upon the sexual energy in this game, especially if you've been properly mixing in the right "sexual triggers" that all women have.




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