There exists in the world of Pickup Artists many schools of thoughts. Naturally with these different schools of thoughts there exists various gurus, professionals, pickup artists, and disciples. There are systems that concentrate on just getting as much sex as you can, systems that teach you how you can seduce as many girls as possible, and those that show you how you can gain and maintain genuine relationships. All these pickup artist tactics are variations of a basic system but at various complexities. I personally dislike the sex systems because they are shallow, abuse the pickup artist methods, and typically are cheap, quick fixes that skim on the art of attracting women. I prefer systems that concentrate on real relationships and treating women like humans instead of a talking blow up doll.
If you study pickup artist tactics, there exists an entire parallel universe complete with their own language, viewpoint, code system, and ideals. Among the various pickup artist methods and systems, I will go over the world famous and legendary: Mystery's M3 Model. This is among the first systems that was actually codified into a set structure and acts as the skeleton/guideline for most of the systems out there.
Attraction
1. Open
2. Female to Male Interest
3. Male to Female Interest
Comfort
1. Building Rapport
2. Building emotional and physical connections
3. Intimacy
Seduction
1. Arousal
2. Last Minute Resistance
3. Sex
A1. Open
You open the set (woman to be picked up), meaning you start contact by approaching them. This includes the feared cold approaches, pickup lines, and beginning a conversation. Must also contain a Social Hook Point. This is the crucial moment in the start of a cold interaction where the set (women, group of girls, group of guys/girls) want you to stick around for a bit, because you are entertaining. This is done by hooking their curiosity through negging (playful teasing) or an intriguing conversation sparked by the opener.
A2. Female to Male Interest.
You must get the girl interested, attracted, and/or intrigued in you first. This is done by DHV (Demonstrating High Value). The primary reason women are attracted to men is when men have a high implied value. There are lots of pickup artist tactics to demonstrating high value and they include: story telling, gimmicks, magic demonstrations, psychic readings, negging (veiled teasing), interesting conversation, etc.
A3. Male to Female Interest
In this stage, The HB (Hot Babe) have to be baited into demonstrating her own value. By doing this, you're just attracted to her by her personality or charm, besides her her appearance. You need to have her gain your interest and be attracted in something besides her looks. Given that you have already shown your high value from A2, you are in a slight position of power and in a position to judge if she is cool enough to hang out with you.
C1. Building Rapport
In this stage, only the two of you should be talking and chilling. This is to develop a sense of comfort with one another. This is the time to relax and just BS with each other, find any common interests, and begin to relate to each other.
C2. Building emotional and physical connections.
Emotional connection is simply conversation taken up a notch. Here you want to include some stories that make you look vulnerable and delicate such as childhood memories and tips into your thoughts. After emotional connection has been established, you instantly want to escalate the physical connection using kino (touching). Kinoing is the very best method to develop out of the nasty "buddy zone" into the sexual zone.
C3. Intimacy
The C3 takes place at a possible sex location. The talking/cuddling/kissing gets serious and now it's time to seal the deal.
S1. Arousal
When you get to this stage, it is beyond the scope of pickup tactics, but another topic all together: your sexual game. The important thing is to escalate from C3 to S1 smoothly, naturally, and with correct timing. If you escalate prematurely or unnaturally, the woman will get buyer's regret and you could blow everything!
S2. LMR (Last Minute Resistance).
Mystery wisely says: "Last Minute Resistance. This is the point of no return before sex occurs. It's often a freak-out moment for the woman." "This is moving too fast..." "I just met you..." "I'm not ready for this..." Or just pushes your hand away from her important areas. The majority of girls do not want to seem like a slut so they will give some type of LMR. The trick here is to not be desperate and needy but rather reinforce the idea that she wants this and you are providing a service.
S3. Sex
Have fun and call/email/text her. Don't be a jerk and ruin it for the rest of us. Real artists don't abandon their art after its finished.
If you study pickup artist tactics, there exists an entire parallel universe complete with their own language, viewpoint, code system, and ideals. Among the various pickup artist methods and systems, I will go over the world famous and legendary: Mystery's M3 Model. This is among the first systems that was actually codified into a set structure and acts as the skeleton/guideline for most of the systems out there.
Attraction
1. Open
2. Female to Male Interest
3. Male to Female Interest
Comfort
1. Building Rapport
2. Building emotional and physical connections
3. Intimacy
Seduction
1. Arousal
2. Last Minute Resistance
3. Sex
A1. Open
You open the set (woman to be picked up), meaning you start contact by approaching them. This includes the feared cold approaches, pickup lines, and beginning a conversation. Must also contain a Social Hook Point. This is the crucial moment in the start of a cold interaction where the set (women, group of girls, group of guys/girls) want you to stick around for a bit, because you are entertaining. This is done by hooking their curiosity through negging (playful teasing) or an intriguing conversation sparked by the opener.
A2. Female to Male Interest.
You must get the girl interested, attracted, and/or intrigued in you first. This is done by DHV (Demonstrating High Value). The primary reason women are attracted to men is when men have a high implied value. There are lots of pickup artist tactics to demonstrating high value and they include: story telling, gimmicks, magic demonstrations, psychic readings, negging (veiled teasing), interesting conversation, etc.
A3. Male to Female Interest
In this stage, The HB (Hot Babe) have to be baited into demonstrating her own value. By doing this, you're just attracted to her by her personality or charm, besides her her appearance. You need to have her gain your interest and be attracted in something besides her looks. Given that you have already shown your high value from A2, you are in a slight position of power and in a position to judge if she is cool enough to hang out with you.
C1. Building Rapport
In this stage, only the two of you should be talking and chilling. This is to develop a sense of comfort with one another. This is the time to relax and just BS with each other, find any common interests, and begin to relate to each other.
C2. Building emotional and physical connections.
Emotional connection is simply conversation taken up a notch. Here you want to include some stories that make you look vulnerable and delicate such as childhood memories and tips into your thoughts. After emotional connection has been established, you instantly want to escalate the physical connection using kino (touching). Kinoing is the very best method to develop out of the nasty "buddy zone" into the sexual zone.
C3. Intimacy
The C3 takes place at a possible sex location. The talking/cuddling/kissing gets serious and now it's time to seal the deal.
S1. Arousal
When you get to this stage, it is beyond the scope of pickup tactics, but another topic all together: your sexual game. The important thing is to escalate from C3 to S1 smoothly, naturally, and with correct timing. If you escalate prematurely or unnaturally, the woman will get buyer's regret and you could blow everything!
S2. LMR (Last Minute Resistance).
Mystery wisely says: "Last Minute Resistance. This is the point of no return before sex occurs. It's often a freak-out moment for the woman." "This is moving too fast..." "I just met you..." "I'm not ready for this..." Or just pushes your hand away from her important areas. The majority of girls do not want to seem like a slut so they will give some type of LMR. The trick here is to not be desperate and needy but rather reinforce the idea that she wants this and you are providing a service.
S3. Sex
Have fun and call/email/text her. Don't be a jerk and ruin it for the rest of us. Real artists don't abandon their art after its finished.
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