Stop hunting for your other half.
What?!
That probably does sound completely paradoxical to anything you've ever heard before, but searching for your "other half" unfortunately does imply that you are not really an entire person right off the bat. It implies, that you do not have everything within you already that you need to live a very happy life. Isn't life about actually seeing ourselves and who we are deep within?
As an alternative look for the person who will be your teammate. Look for someone that challenges you to be something bigger than you have ever been before. Look for someone who believes in you and your vision, who is there for you when times get tricky and who comes to you when they need support too. Look for someone who will walk right by your side...not your missing piece.
Because in life, things always appear and vanish. Even the great relationships that pass the test of time eventually end and you need to go on living your life. The person who is going to be there for you for some considerable time would also wish that you wouldn't be damaged to pieces when they are finally gone. So be a whole person who can love another in full. Be the best version you may be for yourself and allow another to dream with you on the way to change the world.
When you can work on yourself in life and find another who'll do the same, then you can meet together as two complete lovers who appreciate and treasure each other. Isn't this a far better way of going through life than thinking you are broken without somebody there? Doesn't this open you up to major amounts of depth and the power to reach your full potential?
Find your teammate, you will be much better off. These relationships bloom.
What?!
That probably does sound completely paradoxical to anything you've ever heard before, but searching for your "other half" unfortunately does imply that you are not really an entire person right off the bat. It implies, that you do not have everything within you already that you need to live a very happy life. Isn't life about actually seeing ourselves and who we are deep within?
As an alternative look for the person who will be your teammate. Look for someone that challenges you to be something bigger than you have ever been before. Look for someone who believes in you and your vision, who is there for you when times get tricky and who comes to you when they need support too. Look for someone who will walk right by your side...not your missing piece.
Because in life, things always appear and vanish. Even the great relationships that pass the test of time eventually end and you need to go on living your life. The person who is going to be there for you for some considerable time would also wish that you wouldn't be damaged to pieces when they are finally gone. So be a whole person who can love another in full. Be the best version you may be for yourself and allow another to dream with you on the way to change the world.
When you can work on yourself in life and find another who'll do the same, then you can meet together as two complete lovers who appreciate and treasure each other. Isn't this a far better way of going through life than thinking you are broken without somebody there? Doesn't this open you up to major amounts of depth and the power to reach your full potential?
Find your teammate, you will be much better off. These relationships bloom.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author of The Words Of Encouragement, a website dedicated to bringing the best quotes, motivational content on the web, and blogs all to one place. Time to move on from an old relationship, start working on yourself, and diving into what life has to offer? Dig into these quotes about moving on for some great perspective.
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