How Growing In Faith Can Be Different For Everyone

By Catherine Wagner


Any person can go through different phases feeling utterly meaningless and dejected. This can be a common experience for anyone, but it can be excessively difficult to shake off these feelings and thoughts by merely keeping yourself distracted. Growing in faith is a common solution that others often suggest to shake off these haunting feelings.

Obviously, this is an advice that is easier said than done. Nurturing faith may come easy for others, while some may find it impossible. Faith does not have to be a belief in any religious being. Even people who do not pray can lose faith. Faith in this context can simply mean hopefulness and optimism in life.

Living life feeling insignificant might be because you have lost your purpose or are still on the verge of finding it. Without purpose, it could be challenging to justify moving on. Purpose is critical because it gives us the courage to face trials and tribulations. An inspiration may be a friend, partner, family member, or a personal goal. Basically, finding meaning is the best approach to regaining faith.

It can be intimidating when some people seem like they have already got their whole lives figured out. Others even find their purpose as a child in the shape of a dream. Usually, this ambition takes a different shape as the person matures. Someone who originally wanted to become a dancer might eventually change his mind and conclude that he would rather be a lawyer. Lucky ones get to stick to one single dream for their entire lives, but how about others who have not had the chance to set their ambitions straight?

People in the prime of young adulthood may seem like they already have their entire lives figured out and this can be intimidating for others of the same age who have yet to decide what they want to become. The truth is, we go through life at different paces. Some social constructs dictate that at a certain point, you must already have finished an education, chosen a career, married a partner, bought a house, or have had a family.

These questions can only trouble an already lost and confused soul. To get to the bottom of things, first set aside all expectations of you. Then you ask the important questions. Reflect and ask yourself what your goal would rather be if only you were not impeded by financial constraints, families, partners, or anything at all. Ask yourself what you should be pursuing if it was all up to you.

Step out of your comfort zone. By trying out more things and meeting more people, you will learn things about yourself that you did not know of before. You might realize that perhaps you were good at archery, or you love painting, or even photography. Engage in a new sport and learn what you are good at.

Get to know veterans in their field and ask them how they feel about the choices that have led them to where they are now. Learn from the experiences of others and determine what lessons you can apply to yourself. The most helpful thing in realizing your goals is to rid yourself of any unnecessary pressure from society and understand that it is a different journey for everyone. A spectacular way to regain your excitement is to talk to people and learn from them. You would be surprised of the stories they have to tell.

Most essentially, be kind to the people around you. If you cannot change your life then maybe you can impact others positively instead. That alone should fill you with purpose and gratitude for everything you get to enjoy in life.




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