Time For A Jewish And Interfaith Rabbi

By Anthony Bailey


Today unlike years ago, it is easy to meet someone that does not carry and practice the same faith. This is when a Jewish and interfaith Rabbi may well be consulted to answer those questions one may have as to what is required in the marriage ceremony. Years passed, marriages were organised by a person called a Shatgan or matchmaker as it is known in Judaism.

Today times have changed and because of the Internet and dating sites, religions have mixed and it is not surprise that weddings of different faiths have become so widespread. There is nothing wrong with this and if it is a route that must be travelled, there are many guidelines both online and offline that can assist.

It is a noble thing to find out more of what one is getting themselves into should a partner not be Jewish. Researching online is easy enough but sometimes one needs to speak to a Rabbi about more personal questions one should have. This is not uncommon and an interfaith Rabbi is there to answer all sorts of questions pertaining to the marriage day and what is required by law.

There is so much to know about and usually in the days preceding the wedding, one is rushed and just has not got the time to do a bit of studying on the dos and do nots of this day. It is a day that will live on in the life of a couple and one that will always be remembered with fondness. Picking a date also has its problems as there are certain days of the year a Jew may get married so one has to consult with a Rabbi when a suitable time will be.

There are many days in the calendar when marriages are not allowed so it is best to discuss this with a Rabbi in order to pinpoint a day that is allowed. Apart from this, one should also know that these celebrations are not allowed on the Sabbath day which begins on sunset on a Friday to sundown on a Saturday. Weddings are usually held on a Sunday or even during the week but it is best to ask a Rabbi as to which days are permissible.

Shabbat as it is called starts from sundown on a Friday night to sunset on a Saturday night. This is a day of rest as laid out in the Torah or Hebrew Bible. Other days of the years on which festivals fall are also out of the question so it is best to speak to a Rabbi before setting a date just to make sure.

Food can also be a problem if one is new to the many laws that govern dietary requirements. It is best to know a little about what is permitted for consumption and what is not. Using a kosher caterer is advisable as they will only provide kosher foods which are required by law.

There exists deeper meanings behind given practices. Finding out about them is illuminating. An interfaith Rabbi is a storehouse of information and it is best to ask him or her any questions one may have and with that feel empowered.




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