Tips For People Struggling With Intimacy

By Timothy Bailey


There are people who find it natural to get intimate. For others, the struggle cannot even be solved by guns on their heads. People struggling with intimacy face the tricky challenge of dealing with very personal issues that cause the problem. The personal nature of such a challenge means that the solution will be equally personal. You must evaluate your unique situation to find the best solution.

The first step towards a solution is by falling in love with your partner. If the person has ceased to be attractive and close, getting intimate will be a huge challenge. Search for the connection that brought you together. You must begin to see the person in new light. This reignites passion for each other, and increases the chances of getting intimate.

Deal with all secrets and boundaries that set you apart. People are put apart by the secrets and boundaries. Some of the issues that will affect your intimate moments include other lovers in your life and masturbation. By being secretive, you weaken the urge to get intimate with each other. You will be having a relationship that feels artificial and that is unlikely to work. In the absence of boundaries and by being open, you will enjoy the company of each other.

Good listeners will get intimate with ease. Words create a connection that goes deep into the heart. This is the best and deepest source of connection that will enable you to get intimate. You can tell your partner what is in your heart and he or she will reciprocate. As you talk, the fears that exist between you dissipate. The two of you will feel close again to the point of enjoying intimate moments.

Change the environment where affection is diminishing. It is easy for familiarity to cause diminished affection. A vacation will do, especially to a place that reignites your romance. Take walks and create beautiful memories from your tour. Choose the venue so that you enjoy the company of each other.

Solve your differences. The attraction between two people is affected by existing differences. It will be impossible to connect if the differences are not solved as soon as they occur. Do not assume that the other party is fine with persisting differences. The earlier these differences are solved, the better because your connection will not grow cold. It requires a person to feel appreciated for him or her to get the urge to be intimate.

Intimacy will never be a problem is you have the right partner. It is all a matter of connection. If the connection exists and is strong enough, nothing will stop you from enjoying affection. Without this connection, it will not feel right and therefore nothing will happen. The right person also reciprocates the affection. The urge must be mutual rest it feels like you are forcing him or her.

Intimacy is impossible without good communication. Eliminate any strain or stress inside you and between you and your partner. Listen and understand the verbal and none verbal messages being sent by the other partner. When the mood and environment are right, nothing will stop you from enjoying the best moments.




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