You've finally found a guy that you're attracted to. He's everything that you dream of. Unfortunately, it's as if he doesn't know that you're alive. What can you do to get his attention and make him want to spend time with you? How can you let him know that you're interested in him and make him take the first step?
No matter if you're attractive or ugly, it is possible to attract the attention of any guy that you want. While you might think that men are only attracted to beautiful, slim women, this isn't necessarily true. True attraction and love are born in the heart and often go unexplained for most men. So, don't give up hope if you're not thin, young and in shape. It is always possible to date the kind of men that you dream of if you know a little bit about how a man feels love.
The first thing you can concentrate on to get his attention and make him notice you is your smile. We all look more pleasant when we smile at someone that we adore. Something truly glorious happens to us. Your face will have a glow to it and your eyes will sparkle when you look at him. This special kind of smile will convey your emotions silently to him and he will find it attractive.
Now, we're not talking about the same smile that you use with your boss or the guy at the coffee shop. This is not your typical cheesy smile that is given to everyone. This smile is fueled by your adoration for this man. You can practice this by closing your eyes and thinking of him holding your hand for the first time or kissing you for the first time. When you open your eyes there should be a nice, cheery smile on your face and you might even be blushing a little bit. Keep this in mind the next time you see him and give him that coy smile that says everything he needs to know without a word.
Now, we all have our own unique style. Our friends and family might know every outfit that we have in our closet. The same holds true for the man of your dreams if he has spent any amount of time around you. In order for him to think of you differently, he needs to see you differently. Yes, men are visual in nature so if you look a little different then he's going to feel differently about you. This might sound like a simple trick but you will find that it is absolutely true. You don't have to go out and dye your hair or get plastic surgery for a guy to see you differently.
Let's say that you're a girl that always wears skirts and you have to dress up for work, try a different style. If you normally wear long skirts or dress pants, try wearing shorter skirt. Likewise, if you normally wear short skirts, try going with a longer style for a change. If he has always seen you dressed casually, try dressing up for a change. If you always wear your hair down, try wearing it back or up. If you always wear jeans, try a different style of jeans or go for a skirt. If you simply can't function in another other than jeans, add a pair of heels to our outfit and you have dressed up a pair of jeans in a way that will drive some men wild. Your goal or aim is to make him notice you and for him to see that something has changed about you. This will cause interest in him and he will become curious.
When was the last time that you touched the guy you're interested in? Touching a man can begin to create a connection with him and give him a pleasant feeling. The next time you see him, touch his shoulder or arm. Whether you're talking with him or just saying hello in passing, be daring and touch him. This is a non-verbal way of showing closeness and telling him that you're interested in him. You might be nervous that he doesn't like to be touched or scared that he will pull away from you but you can be sure that none of these things will happen. No woman every got in trouble for incidental contact in passing or when talking. It only takes a couple of minutes and the message you send will be felt loud and clear.
While groping him at work, if you work with him, might get you into trouble, touching like this isn't unheard of. There are actually managers that use this technique to create rapport with workers under them. Touching creates a bond or subliminal connection with the person you are touching and in many cultures it's quite acceptable if not the norm. Touching is more powerful than any kind words that you could tell him at this point. It's innocent and he will feel that you're affectionate and unconsciously feel attracted to you.
Try some of these tricks and you will find that the man of your dreams will become more interested in you. He will seek you out and become more attracted to you no matter what you might look like or where your relationship stands today. Don't doubt yourself. Some of the most attractive women in the world are thought to be beautiful not because of how they look but because of some of the methods that you have learned here today. Make that man yours. Be brave and go out on a limb to get him interested in you the way that you want.
No matter if you're attractive or ugly, it is possible to attract the attention of any guy that you want. While you might think that men are only attracted to beautiful, slim women, this isn't necessarily true. True attraction and love are born in the heart and often go unexplained for most men. So, don't give up hope if you're not thin, young and in shape. It is always possible to date the kind of men that you dream of if you know a little bit about how a man feels love.
The first thing you can concentrate on to get his attention and make him notice you is your smile. We all look more pleasant when we smile at someone that we adore. Something truly glorious happens to us. Your face will have a glow to it and your eyes will sparkle when you look at him. This special kind of smile will convey your emotions silently to him and he will find it attractive.
Now, we're not talking about the same smile that you use with your boss or the guy at the coffee shop. This is not your typical cheesy smile that is given to everyone. This smile is fueled by your adoration for this man. You can practice this by closing your eyes and thinking of him holding your hand for the first time or kissing you for the first time. When you open your eyes there should be a nice, cheery smile on your face and you might even be blushing a little bit. Keep this in mind the next time you see him and give him that coy smile that says everything he needs to know without a word.
Now, we all have our own unique style. Our friends and family might know every outfit that we have in our closet. The same holds true for the man of your dreams if he has spent any amount of time around you. In order for him to think of you differently, he needs to see you differently. Yes, men are visual in nature so if you look a little different then he's going to feel differently about you. This might sound like a simple trick but you will find that it is absolutely true. You don't have to go out and dye your hair or get plastic surgery for a guy to see you differently.
Let's say that you're a girl that always wears skirts and you have to dress up for work, try a different style. If you normally wear long skirts or dress pants, try wearing shorter skirt. Likewise, if you normally wear short skirts, try going with a longer style for a change. If he has always seen you dressed casually, try dressing up for a change. If you always wear your hair down, try wearing it back or up. If you always wear jeans, try a different style of jeans or go for a skirt. If you simply can't function in another other than jeans, add a pair of heels to our outfit and you have dressed up a pair of jeans in a way that will drive some men wild. Your goal or aim is to make him notice you and for him to see that something has changed about you. This will cause interest in him and he will become curious.
When was the last time that you touched the guy you're interested in? Touching a man can begin to create a connection with him and give him a pleasant feeling. The next time you see him, touch his shoulder or arm. Whether you're talking with him or just saying hello in passing, be daring and touch him. This is a non-verbal way of showing closeness and telling him that you're interested in him. You might be nervous that he doesn't like to be touched or scared that he will pull away from you but you can be sure that none of these things will happen. No woman every got in trouble for incidental contact in passing or when talking. It only takes a couple of minutes and the message you send will be felt loud and clear.
While groping him at work, if you work with him, might get you into trouble, touching like this isn't unheard of. There are actually managers that use this technique to create rapport with workers under them. Touching creates a bond or subliminal connection with the person you are touching and in many cultures it's quite acceptable if not the norm. Touching is more powerful than any kind words that you could tell him at this point. It's innocent and he will feel that you're affectionate and unconsciously feel attracted to you.
Try some of these tricks and you will find that the man of your dreams will become more interested in you. He will seek you out and become more attracted to you no matter what you might look like or where your relationship stands today. Don't doubt yourself. Some of the most attractive women in the world are thought to be beautiful not because of how they look but because of some of the methods that you have learned here today. Make that man yours. Be brave and go out on a limb to get him interested in you the way that you want.
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