After College Meet Is Far Difficult To Find

By Minnie Whitley


It is easy for one to get a date while in college than after school. This is because in every class one attends they will always find themselves sited next to one. Things change immediately one start working; they realize that after college meet is difficult. Most of the men and women one spends most of the time with after school are the workmates and close neighbors.

Finding your love in university is easier because you are surrounded with a lot of people every time. Also the college environment is favorable; in the library, dining halls, football games and flat parties you always find yourself with one sitting next to you. This makes one feel with have a wide variety to choose from.

Immediately one leaves school things change completely. They have to adjust to spending most of their times at home and work place. While college life was built around various activities such as clubs, study sessions, sports and social meetings. After college your life now has to revolve around work and your home.

The transition after college can be depressing for some people. It can be difficult to adapt to work home rat race. One wakes up, they go to job, in the evening they go home, take their supper, then go to bed. They have to repeat the same routine the following day. This kind of a lifestyle means that you rarely have time to meet women and whenever one does the options are limited. This is due to the fact that pool of women they choose from is limited from those they meet at work place and close neighbors.

As people grow older and approach thirties they accept that it is far difficult to find a life partner than they first thought. Most of the people caught up in such a scenario are those that are too busy with their work. As one get older they begin to realize it is increasing difficult to find someone you can tolerate let alone love. Those who have tried dating after school are disappointed that the few they meet are extreme, have horrible tastes, shitty ideas and qualities.

The ugly truth is that most of the single people we see are not happy. The most exciting moments in the life of a human being is when they find a true love. Research has it that no one envisioned that they would be single. When people find themselves so busy that their life is ruled by work, it is time to stop and reflect. Perhaps engaging in social activities may work for them.

There are several tips that one can adopt to help come across their love especially if you are so busy. Some these include; online dating, outdoor activities like taking a walk, throwing parties can be a creative way of meeting your date and pursuing your passions. At no time should work run your life engage in sports and games among others.

It is interesting that most people you come across after school have a hidden motive. Men are after ladies for fun while women want the guys they meet to marry them. Due to this when people meet they find it difficult to understand each other and at the end of the day each walks away confused and disappointed.




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