Reasons To Join Online Dating Sites For Outdoor People

By Marci Glover


Years before modern technology has shifted our needs and priorities, a very respected psychologist made a study about human needs. He came up with five levels where each specific need is grouped together along with more or less the same needs. According to his hierarchy, each level has to be attained for a life full of contentment.

Since the idea is that one can not reach the next level without conquering the first one, then man has to have food, shelter and clothing above anything else. After this, he has to feel a sense of being safe. This does not only include physical safety but also employment security. Love and belonging needs follow soon after, which is why most join dating sites for outdoor people.

The next two stages tackle on self esteem and self actualization. Esteem requirements include confidence and trust in your abilities, and gaining the respect of others in the community. Only a very few achieve self actualization, which is the last stage. It is in the gaining of wisdom that not everything will work out, but what matters is that you tried.

Following in the different levels of needs, it is suffice to say that most have achieved the first two steps. The lucky ones are in the third, the hardworking ones are onto the fourth already. One can reach the fourth level after the third, but most often, young adults of today tend to skip the third in pursuit of the fourth. Career over love is currently the favorite motto of the public.

Such people are the workaholics. They have the most fashionable wardrobe and the most intimidating offices. They shop in all the expensive designer brands and the prices do not bother them. They seem to be the happiest of the lot, but when the lights go out, they are actually the saddest.

Being at the top is great, but it would have been greater if you could share the magnificent view with a special someone. But, meeting that special person is never easy, so much ore for these overachievers. They simply can not find the time to go out on blind dates, unlike most people. They do not have the time to watch movies with practical strangers. To help them, online sites were developed.

Though some people laugh at the idea and dismiss it as one only for the desperate, there are already very successful pairings who first met via the net. The success factor kind of turned things around and now, these sites are getting all the raves. The idea of such a site is to connect people without having to go through the ministration of doing all the usual activities done on a date.

Adults join these sites because they are tired of wasting time going on dates that produce no excellent results at all. With an online site you can try finding a partner without spending money on a date. If you do not feel a connection, you stop. If someone is very persistent, you can always block him or her and he or she will never be able to bother you again.

This lack of connection then leads you to the second reason why online dating could be much more profitable than the usual way. Websites usually have categorized their members so you are sure to find one that has more or less the same interests as you do. If you love the outdoors and your idea of a perfect date is through camping out, then you can be sure there is one who thinks your idea is just perfect.




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