Marriage, in many cases, throws those wondrous days of active sex
out of the window. If you have kids then it may certainly seem like an
adieu to your sex life. Before you embark on a sex life with no spark
whatsoever, take some tips so that your marriage doesn't become a
compromise on several things that you loved doing in the past. In case
you are among the lucky few who can still manage to have a happening sex
life, these tips will help you to get even better.
1) Communicate
Communication is key to everything. Remember how you two interacted before you had sex for the first time. Most likely, a lot of talking, flirting, and verbal and non-verbal communication led up to your first time and made you both comfortable and ready. Sadly, with marriage and after years of being in a relationship, communication, just like sex, sometimes seems to walk out the door. We presume our partner understands things but that shouldn't be the case. Taking your partner or your sex life for granted is the last thing you should do. Talk, talk and talk and this is the most important piece of advice I can offer.
2) Be Erotic
Lay your hands on a few 'stuffs', and they don't have to be top freaky. Try some amazing candles, experiment with a few body massage oils or creams, and use these to keep it fresh. Both of you will look forward to these exciting moments.
3) Be Flirtatious
Not with another woman but with your own lady. There's definitely no rule that says you cannot flirt with your wife or long-time partner, but many don't do it! Casually flirting with your partner throughout the day can be a huge turn-on that'll get you both fired up for when you're alone together.
4) Be Attentive
Women are more likely to be interested in sex when they feel emotionally satisfied.
Be attentive to her, listen to what she says, and understand what she needs. Do this and your partner will want to heat things up.
5) Have Isolated Moments
Make sure you're not always glued to the TV, radio and on the couch till you fall asleep. Spend some time completely alone, talk about the past, present, and future and share those special moments.
6) Share Fantasies
Sharing sexual fantasies can be great for couples. You take the lead and some day she will share her own sexual fantasies.
Challenge each other to match up, flirtatiously and lovingly.
7) Always Try New Things
There is no rulebook that says you cannot have sex in the car, in the basement, in the garage or anywhere you happen to be when the moment hits. As long as you know that your privacy will not be invaded and you aren't doing anything illegal, have sex everywhere you can and in any positions you want to keep things exciting.
Most of all, relax and have fun!
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