You want your man happy so that your relationship can be as fulfilling for both of you as possible.
You realize that there will be bad patches or the occasional unhappy day but you want your relationship to be as good as it can get. So what simple things can you do to make your man happy?
1. Find your joy spot. To make your man happy you must be happy yourself as you cannot give away what you don't have. What do you need to do to be happy in (and with) your life today? Do you need a career change or an attitude adjustment? Do you need an exercise program so you can feel better about yourself or a wardrobe or body makeover? You must make whatever changes you need so that you can be happy. Once you are happy than making your man happy will be do-able. If you are unhappy then however much you try you will run out of the energy you need to make your man happy.
2. Let your joy overflow to him! Once you find your own happiness then it is easy to make your man happy in different ways.
a. Smile at him when you see him or as you talk to him. Wear your joy on your face and smile at him every chance that you get. Give him a naughty smile and a wink periodically just to remind him that you are happy with him and find him joyously attractive. You will make your man happy by transferring some of your happiness to him.
b. Touch and hug him regularly and spontaneously. Surprise him by touching him lightly often like you did once when you couldn't keep your hands off him. You will make him happy with the knowledge and evidence that he is attractive and you like him so much that you cannot help but touch him lovingly.
c. Fuss over him when he comes home or visits. Welcome him when he gets home or visits. Stop what you are doing and give him your undivided attention for a few minutes, immediately after he gets to the house. If he has a favorite drink make sure you have it on hand when you expect him home. Your focused attention on him lets him know that you love him enough to stop what you are doing and focus on him before getting back to the tasks at hand thus making him happy.
d. Hang around him like one who enjoys his company. To make your man happy be actively involved in his life. If you can join him in some of the tasks that he is involved in and if he wants your company then avail yourself to him. And when you keep him company bring your joy and admiration with you.
e. Practice his love language. What makes him feel loved and appreciated? If you don't know his love language then make the effort to learn it and don't assume that he loves what you love. Then speak his love language and your man's happiness will hit a new high.
f. Be nice to him. To make you man happy you need to treat him with kindness. Avoiding the biting criticism and the negativity but do not pretend to happy when you are not. If he is treating you like yesterday's rubbish then you need to let him know that this is unacceptable behavior with dire consequences. But if you just get easily irritated because you have been together for a while then this is where the mind shift to niceness is required. Your courteousness will make your man happy as he feels appreciated and liked.
To make your man happy requires the right foundation (you being happy) and the simple love deeds will flow from you.
You realize that there will be bad patches or the occasional unhappy day but you want your relationship to be as good as it can get. So what simple things can you do to make your man happy?
1. Find your joy spot. To make your man happy you must be happy yourself as you cannot give away what you don't have. What do you need to do to be happy in (and with) your life today? Do you need a career change or an attitude adjustment? Do you need an exercise program so you can feel better about yourself or a wardrobe or body makeover? You must make whatever changes you need so that you can be happy. Once you are happy than making your man happy will be do-able. If you are unhappy then however much you try you will run out of the energy you need to make your man happy.
2. Let your joy overflow to him! Once you find your own happiness then it is easy to make your man happy in different ways.
a. Smile at him when you see him or as you talk to him. Wear your joy on your face and smile at him every chance that you get. Give him a naughty smile and a wink periodically just to remind him that you are happy with him and find him joyously attractive. You will make your man happy by transferring some of your happiness to him.
b. Touch and hug him regularly and spontaneously. Surprise him by touching him lightly often like you did once when you couldn't keep your hands off him. You will make him happy with the knowledge and evidence that he is attractive and you like him so much that you cannot help but touch him lovingly.
c. Fuss over him when he comes home or visits. Welcome him when he gets home or visits. Stop what you are doing and give him your undivided attention for a few minutes, immediately after he gets to the house. If he has a favorite drink make sure you have it on hand when you expect him home. Your focused attention on him lets him know that you love him enough to stop what you are doing and focus on him before getting back to the tasks at hand thus making him happy.
d. Hang around him like one who enjoys his company. To make your man happy be actively involved in his life. If you can join him in some of the tasks that he is involved in and if he wants your company then avail yourself to him. And when you keep him company bring your joy and admiration with you.
e. Practice his love language. What makes him feel loved and appreciated? If you don't know his love language then make the effort to learn it and don't assume that he loves what you love. Then speak his love language and your man's happiness will hit a new high.
f. Be nice to him. To make you man happy you need to treat him with kindness. Avoiding the biting criticism and the negativity but do not pretend to happy when you are not. If he is treating you like yesterday's rubbish then you need to let him know that this is unacceptable behavior with dire consequences. But if you just get easily irritated because you have been together for a while then this is where the mind shift to niceness is required. Your courteousness will make your man happy as he feels appreciated and liked.
To make your man happy requires the right foundation (you being happy) and the simple love deeds will flow from you.
If you want more clues on how to keep him attracted to you then use these 6 attraction holding actions but if you need a guide to help you get through to him using proven communication tactics then I recommend these relationship practices to make your communication the best that it can be.
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