Friend Zone Meme : Dodging the Zone

By Cedric Wright


It is natural for humans to crave love and affection. This is why many people struggle day and night to find their perfect partner. It can be very discouraging to be put in the friend zone meme by that special someone. Once this happens, there are no hopes of a romantic relationship with the person in question. Women are particularly known to friend zone men, although it also happens the other way around sometimes.

There are ways through which a man or woman for that matter can avoid finding him or herself in such a situation. Many times, women friend zone men very early in a relationship. It could happen even before the man is aware that he cannot go past friendship with the woman. The first mistake that a man makes on his way to the friend zone is not being frank with the lady.

Many men make the mistake of not making their intention known to the woman early enough. If a man wants to have a romantic relationship with a lady, he should make his intentions known right from the start. Many men make the mistake of hiding this intention and then revealing it later after they have been friends with the lady for some time. Doing this is the easiest way of getting friend-zoned.

Men also need to keep it in mind that there should be a difference between them and the female friends of the woman. There are certain things that a man should not do with his woman. Gossiping about female friends of the woman is a definite no-no for a man.

It is important to talk to a lady and show interest in what she has to say as well as spend quality time with her. It is however disastrous to constantly engage in topics that she would otherwise discuss with her best friends. In the early stages of wooing a lady, men tend to go overboard in trying to impress the lady. They will therefore talk about topics they do not enjoy; they will undertake feminine activities like talking the lady to the salon and so on.

The logic here is that the man should not assume any responsibilities of the female friends of his woman. While giving the woman enough attention on issues that matter to her, the man should strive to strike a balance between his role as the man and the role of her female companions.

It is not common for women to be friend-zoned by their men. The main reason that would make a woman end up as a mere peer is that she played hard to get for a long time.

Men tend to lose interest in a very short time. If the woman is not giving positive feedback, she risks entering the friend zone meme with her man. For the women, it is not so difficult to avoid this scenario.




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