You find yourself walking down the street with no expectations, when you see your future girlfriend walking along minding her own business. She immediately catches your eye and your heart. You want to meet her, you want to go up to her, stop her and have a deep conversation with her.
But then you start thinking how she would react if a bum like you accosted her in the middle of the day, in the middle of the street. Because if a real bum were to accost YOU in the middle of the street, you'd feel harassed, annoyed, and/or a little bit scared.
Well, attempting to stop a girl on the road is nearly like that. Everyone wants to feel active, engaged, and self important so a woman walking busily down the street is in a hurry to get somewhere not that terribly important. A stranger stopping her from her goal is akin to a bum stopping you for money. The success rate of stopping and favorably engaging a girl is LOW because of the goal oriented mindset of the woman. A woman doesn't want to be stopped. Even if they're going nowhere, they still think they're going somewhere. The concept of approaching a woman on the road just does not work.
Then what should you do? Should you just let that cutie walk along and out of your life? No way! There is a way, a better way then trying to stop a woman on the street. A way that makes the conditions to approach her much more favorable for success.
Simply, do not try to stop a moving target on a mission ... follow her. Don't creep up on her, don't rush after her, and definitely don't stalk her! Simply do some Mission Impossible recon and follow her. Follow her because people walking on the road are not walking far. If they're walking, they're walking to someplace close, otherwise they 'd be driving in their vehicle. So if you see a lady walking down the street, odds are, she is going to somewhere close.
Be like 007, inconspicuous and cool, and trail her. You can regroup and come up with a game plan when she has actually stopped and you have ascertained her destination. Depending on the type of location and atmosphere, you will need to readjust your opening but once she has actually settled down at her destination, you can approach her as usual in an environment that is a lot more favorable to approaching.
A stationary target is much easier to hit then a moving one. So be patient, get in touch with your inner 007, do some mission impossible spy work, and approach her at the right time.
But then you start thinking how she would react if a bum like you accosted her in the middle of the day, in the middle of the street. Because if a real bum were to accost YOU in the middle of the street, you'd feel harassed, annoyed, and/or a little bit scared.
Well, attempting to stop a girl on the road is nearly like that. Everyone wants to feel active, engaged, and self important so a woman walking busily down the street is in a hurry to get somewhere not that terribly important. A stranger stopping her from her goal is akin to a bum stopping you for money. The success rate of stopping and favorably engaging a girl is LOW because of the goal oriented mindset of the woman. A woman doesn't want to be stopped. Even if they're going nowhere, they still think they're going somewhere. The concept of approaching a woman on the road just does not work.
Then what should you do? Should you just let that cutie walk along and out of your life? No way! There is a way, a better way then trying to stop a woman on the street. A way that makes the conditions to approach her much more favorable for success.
Simply, do not try to stop a moving target on a mission ... follow her. Don't creep up on her, don't rush after her, and definitely don't stalk her! Simply do some Mission Impossible recon and follow her. Follow her because people walking on the road are not walking far. If they're walking, they're walking to someplace close, otherwise they 'd be driving in their vehicle. So if you see a lady walking down the street, odds are, she is going to somewhere close.
Be like 007, inconspicuous and cool, and trail her. You can regroup and come up with a game plan when she has actually stopped and you have ascertained her destination. Depending on the type of location and atmosphere, you will need to readjust your opening but once she has actually settled down at her destination, you can approach her as usual in an environment that is a lot more favorable to approaching.
A stationary target is much easier to hit then a moving one. So be patient, get in touch with your inner 007, do some mission impossible spy work, and approach her at the right time.
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