When it comes to knowing how to pleasure themselves and masturbate, women can have just as much fun and enjoyment doing it as a man does. You may think that women don't masturbate, but you would be very wrong! It is actually something that is great for women to do so they get to know what turns them on so they can better be able to tell their partner when they are going to make love with them.
Masturbation among married women is common since for so many of them, that is the only way they can achieve orgasm and enjoy sexual pleasure. For most other women who reach orgasm through sex with male partners, they have to plead and beg and cajole their men to suck them and help them achieve it.
Why Do Women Have To Masturbate? Women masturbate because that is probably the only way for many of them to explore themselves and discover parts of their bodies their men never reach during foreplay or sex. Masturbation helps women explore their pleasure points in order to excite themselves in a sexual way. Females also masturbate to give themselves the sexual and erotic pleasure their men and sex partners fail to give them during sex.
With that view firmly established in the American psyche it is easy to see how masturbation and especially female masturbation is something considered indecent and gross. So you have very repressed people who naturally have urges to masturbate but have been raised to see those natural urges as bad, improper, and even evil.What you should understand is that these are simply someones beliefs and have nothing to do with reality. The reality is that humans are sexual creatures (how else do you think you are here reading this?) and the urge to masturbate is as natural as the urge to eat and sleep.
If you get enough pressure and motion going, it's possible to make yourself come by hand, but if you have a vibrator, it can be even more intense and pleasurable. You can get special vibrators that have little "wings" on them that are made special to vibrate and stimulate a woman's clitoris. These can be used on yourself, or your lover can use them to masturbate you to add some spice to your love making sessions.
The male experience is shorter but more intense. The female experience is longer but lower overall. My experience of female masturbation is that the initial phase can be horizontal - nothing happens. I lie there waiting for the inspiration of an effective fantasy.But once that spark takes light, my experience is similar to a man's. Within a minute or two the whole thing is over. The build up is quick and the sensations of release are sexually satisfying. The aftermath of orgasm involves a sense of relief followed by blissful relaxation.
Besides the clitoris, you can learn to gently stroke and rub the folds of the vaginal opening, or rub and pinch your nipples and watch them grow hard as well. Just because the clitoris is the organ that ultimately brings you to climax, there is no reason to ignore your other bits as they need attention too!
During female masturbation, whatever sexual activity I am imagining (usually anal sex or occasionally fellatio), my focus at the point of orgasm is thinking about the man's orgasm. The act of ejaculation is highly graphic and, for me, symbolizes the sexual satisfaction of my own orgasm.I approached sex initially as a man must. I hoped to feel sexual arousal and that I would be able to reach orgasm during sex. I was bitterly disappointed as many women are, who are familiar with orgasm from female masturbation, when they first come to sex. I concluded that the female mind and body simply do not respond to sex as a man's mind and body do.
I also concluded that the impression that women respond similarly to men must be a result of sexual fantasies. Since talking to other women, I now know that women interpret emotional sensations as if they represent true sexual arousal and orgasm.When women like myself ask about lack of orgasm, experts often refer to inhibition or to psychological trauma that might have caused a woman to view sex as 'dirty' or as a 'violation' rather than a loving act involving mutual sexual pleasure. I challenge this suggestion - it seems more likely that the reverse is likely to be true.Women who masturbate to orgasm are LESS sexually inhibited than other women. Not only do they appreciate eroticism enough to enjoy their own sexual fantasies when alone. They are also more willing to engage on a variety of sexual activities with a partner to explore how they might enjoy their own sexual arousal during sex.
Masturbation among married women is common since for so many of them, that is the only way they can achieve orgasm and enjoy sexual pleasure. For most other women who reach orgasm through sex with male partners, they have to plead and beg and cajole their men to suck them and help them achieve it.
Why Do Women Have To Masturbate? Women masturbate because that is probably the only way for many of them to explore themselves and discover parts of their bodies their men never reach during foreplay or sex. Masturbation helps women explore their pleasure points in order to excite themselves in a sexual way. Females also masturbate to give themselves the sexual and erotic pleasure their men and sex partners fail to give them during sex.
With that view firmly established in the American psyche it is easy to see how masturbation and especially female masturbation is something considered indecent and gross. So you have very repressed people who naturally have urges to masturbate but have been raised to see those natural urges as bad, improper, and even evil.What you should understand is that these are simply someones beliefs and have nothing to do with reality. The reality is that humans are sexual creatures (how else do you think you are here reading this?) and the urge to masturbate is as natural as the urge to eat and sleep.
If you get enough pressure and motion going, it's possible to make yourself come by hand, but if you have a vibrator, it can be even more intense and pleasurable. You can get special vibrators that have little "wings" on them that are made special to vibrate and stimulate a woman's clitoris. These can be used on yourself, or your lover can use them to masturbate you to add some spice to your love making sessions.
The male experience is shorter but more intense. The female experience is longer but lower overall. My experience of female masturbation is that the initial phase can be horizontal - nothing happens. I lie there waiting for the inspiration of an effective fantasy.But once that spark takes light, my experience is similar to a man's. Within a minute or two the whole thing is over. The build up is quick and the sensations of release are sexually satisfying. The aftermath of orgasm involves a sense of relief followed by blissful relaxation.
Besides the clitoris, you can learn to gently stroke and rub the folds of the vaginal opening, or rub and pinch your nipples and watch them grow hard as well. Just because the clitoris is the organ that ultimately brings you to climax, there is no reason to ignore your other bits as they need attention too!
During female masturbation, whatever sexual activity I am imagining (usually anal sex or occasionally fellatio), my focus at the point of orgasm is thinking about the man's orgasm. The act of ejaculation is highly graphic and, for me, symbolizes the sexual satisfaction of my own orgasm.I approached sex initially as a man must. I hoped to feel sexual arousal and that I would be able to reach orgasm during sex. I was bitterly disappointed as many women are, who are familiar with orgasm from female masturbation, when they first come to sex. I concluded that the female mind and body simply do not respond to sex as a man's mind and body do.
I also concluded that the impression that women respond similarly to men must be a result of sexual fantasies. Since talking to other women, I now know that women interpret emotional sensations as if they represent true sexual arousal and orgasm.When women like myself ask about lack of orgasm, experts often refer to inhibition or to psychological trauma that might have caused a woman to view sex as 'dirty' or as a 'violation' rather than a loving act involving mutual sexual pleasure. I challenge this suggestion - it seems more likely that the reverse is likely to be true.Women who masturbate to orgasm are LESS sexually inhibited than other women. Not only do they appreciate eroticism enough to enjoy their own sexual fantasies when alone. They are also more willing to engage on a variety of sexual activities with a partner to explore how they might enjoy their own sexual arousal during sex.
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